I've been looking and can't seem to find a memory for a sim having an abortion (modded, of course) I do have inteen, although the memory doesn't have to really match up so long as the sim has a memory. (I also have the abortion table in my game for this storyline) I'm not too handy with SimPE, has anyone created something like this already?

I don't know of an existing abortion memory, but you can always make one with the tattered diary.

(Out of curiosity, what do you mean by the abortion table? I can't find such a thing by searching.)

Gummilutt has a custom memory book that contains an abortion memory.

As above or if you want something automatic, but it's a miscarriage memory instead, I suggest you get Meduza's mod
https://www.tumblr.com/jellymeduza/...ms?source=share

[...] If they drank the [miscarriage] poison on their own will, they won’t get miscarriage memory unless their first or second aspiration is family or they have ‘family oriented’ trait. If someone else poisoned them, they will gain miscarriage memory unless they have ‘dislikes children’ trait. The game will firstly check for DiLight’s miscarriage memory, then it’ll look for sophie-david’s miscarriage memory.

It works with https://modthesims.info/d/526406/