I swear I saw a mod like this somewhere, but I can't seem to find it anywhere. When two Sims go steady, get engaged or get married, the mod makes the memories positive or negative randomly (or at least gives a chance of a negative memory). I think it allows Romance Sims to have positive commitment memories, too.

I came across Lazy Duchess's "Random Marriage/Proposal Rejection" mod found here, and DiLight's "Easy Committed Relationship for Romance Sims" found here in my search, but one just adds random commitment rejection and the other makes Romance Sims' commitment memories positive.

Anyone heard of the mod I'm talking about? I might be getting it confused with either of the mods I listed, but I thought I'd ask just in case there's something else out there.

Thank you.

I am so sorry for necroing this thread but maybe someone else will come across this post.
Here is the mod you're looking for, I think:

https://gardenofshadows.org.uk/gard...40876#msg740876


How does it work, you ask? Well, I added an aspiration-based random chance of getting the good memory: in my mod, it's 90% for Fortune and Family sims, 75% for Popularity and Knowledge, 10% for Romance and Pleasure, else 50% chance for either. The chance for each aspiration can be edited in the social's BHAVs for "Memory - Engaged" or "Memory - Marriage". Open it up and you'll see a line saying "Get in Temp 0 - Aspiration (Primary)" - underneath that line, there are checks for each aspiration, and under each of those lines is the aspiration's random chance for getting the bad memory. Change the literal number to whatever chance you want, and you're set.


It works for engagement and marriage memories but not for steady.