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#1 Old 26th Apr 2025 at 6:09 PM
Default Sim aged up and got a random boyfriend
So, my teen aged sim aged up to young adult. Soon after blowing candles I got a message that said my sim is now dating. The problem is that before aging up the sim was dating other sim that is couple of days younger. So my sim got bad reputation and maybe a furious boyfriend. The sim mentioned in the message was my sims partner at the prom and I am not sure did I answered yes when he ask would my sim date him but they never actually date. The game saw them as friends. I have never seen this before. If I remember correctly they should keep their relationships while aging up. Can somebody please explain what is happening? I thought that there is a bug either prom interaction or aging up. In any case it makes unwanted twist to the story.
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#2 Old 26th Apr 2025 at 6:56 PM
Quote: Originally posted by Ruusupapu
So, my teen aged sim aged up to young adult. Soon after blowing candles I got a message that said my sim is now dating. The problem is that before aging up the sim was dating other sim that is couple of days younger. So my sim got bad reputation and maybe a furious boyfriend. The sim mentioned in the message was my sims partner at the prom and I am not sure did I answered yes when he ask would my sim date him but they never actually date. The game saw them as friends. I have never seen this before. If I remember correctly they should keep their relationships while aging up. Can somebody please explain what is happening? I thought that there is a bug either prom interaction or aging up. In any case it makes unwanted twist to the story.


EA is kind of 1950's regarding relations, so adults and teens don't mix. You would need to have Nraas mods or some "adult" type mods to allow adult/ teen romance. Hopefully, this works... @Igazor would know the Nraas mods for this. Most likely Master Controller and Woohooer can get it done, but I've had so many Nraas mods in my game since day 2 of playing, I can't bbe 100% sure that's all you need.

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#3 Old 26th Apr 2025 at 7:02 PM
Quote: Originally posted by LadySmoks
EA is kind of 1950's regarding relations, so adults and teens don't mix. You would need to have Nraas mods or some "adult" type mods to allow adult/ teen romance. Hopefully, this works... @Igazor would know the Nraas mods for this. Most likely Master Controller and Woohooer can get it done, but I've had so many Nraas mods in my game since day 2 of playing, I can't bbe 100% sure that's all you need.


Maybe this is the reason. I still wonder why the game want give my sim a new boyfriend. But I think that I had young adult -teen affair once when I played without mods. (The young adult was teen first and there was no romantic interactions available.)

I have Nraas Master Controller and maybe I need it to get rid of the unwanted boyfriend.
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#4 Old 5th May 2025 at 1:01 PM Last edited by ItzelKorran : 20th May 2025 at 11:53 AM.
Sometimes Sims can get auto-assigned romantic relationships after prom, even if they weren’t officially dating. Aging up might have triggered the game to recognize that prom connection as a romantic one, causing the bad reputation. It’s definitely an odd and unintended twist. I was completely overwhelmed with back-to-back deadlines, and writing my philosophy essay felt impossible. Thankfully, I found https://academized.com/ just in time. Academized’s essay writing service really helped me stay on track without sacrificing quality. Their support saved me from falling behind.
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